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Ann M. Stotts
English Comp. 1
September 20, 2011
When I married my husband I knew what I was in for. I was becoming an army wife. I knew what that meant and what the entailed. The problem was I didn’t know hard it would actually be. I learned very quickly the day he deployed for Iraq.
I can still remember that day perfectly. It was a hot September day in Tennessee. We had to be at Fort Campbell early that morning so the soldiers could be accounted for and their bags could be checked to be sure they were packed correctly.
I remember standing next to my father-in-law, off to the side, watching the process. We were laughing together because we thought it was funny that these grown men were having a hard time getting in alphabetical order. Their sergeant was screaming at them, and I remember thinking how it reminded me of all the army movies I had seen. I was a little surprised it really was like that in the army.
After all bags were checked and all soldiers were accounted for, they were let go for the rest of the afternoon to have lunch and spend time with their families. My husband, my father-in-law, a few other soldiers, and I decided to go to another soldier’s house to order pizza and hang out until the guys had to be back later that evening.
We had a lot of fun and laughs during those few hours. The guys reminisced about older deployments and other events during their army career. I heard stories about my husband that he failed to tell me. I’m sure they were not told to me to spare him the humiliation.
Soon it was time to go back to Fort Campbell. I was thinking we would arrive back and the buses would be there ready to take them away. So the laughs and smiles soon went away. I had a horrible feeling in my stomach knowing this was going to be the last time I saw my husband for fifteen months. To my surprise the buses were not there. Little did I know that the army’s motto is, “hurry up and wait.” Instead they had tents...